tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post2572607543691960372..comments2023-10-15T11:15:59.818-04:00Comments on The Diva's Random Thoughts: Ask TeeDiva's Thoughtshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16177643214210147206noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-38888584510208225332009-11-21T19:54:45.444-05:002009-11-21T19:54:45.444-05:00whew lawd!whew lawd!*Tanyetta*https://www.blogger.com/profile/14339189484151758472noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-33943317231678309392009-11-19T15:26:56.207-05:002009-11-19T15:26:56.207-05:00Well if I was the Father I would like to know. But...Well if I was the Father I would like to know. But hey guys are always the last to know.<br /><br />I would also like to see it before it was given up for adoption but that was not the case in my situation.Liamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09519085240108038732noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-25102885373308523992009-11-19T11:26:32.950-05:002009-11-19T11:26:32.950-05:00I agree it sounds like she has a great boyfriend a...I agree it sounds like she has a great boyfriend and agree that she needs to find out and inform the potential fathers. Not only is it common sense but for medical reasons alone she needs to know. What if the child needs a donor one day? or just a blood transfusion? Medical history is beyond important in this day and age.Bhttp://dreaminginthedark.orgnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-33962580531784573392009-11-19T10:19:26.815-05:002009-11-19T10:19:26.815-05:00Moooooog35, did you really think we weren't go...Moooooog35, did you really think we weren't going to ask how you know such a thing.<br /><br />I'm asking, how do you know such a thing?<br /><br />But for the rest of it, one night stands and at least three guys within two months, it is obvious, isn't it.<br /><br />She even says current boyfriends, not current boyfriend, but that might have been a typo.<br /><br />The only reason that she's thinking about telling the truth now is that the guy she wants to keep already knew it wasn't his. If the timing had been better, and she didn't know he was "fixed", she would have lied to him and not even thought about those other guys or the baby.<br /><br /><br /><br />And I think Tee misread part of the letter when she was writing the advice. "Or let my current boyfriend be the stand in dad for as long as we date, then tell the poss. fathers to be?" See, she's not even going to marry this guy. He's been "fixed" and maybe he missed out on the idea of being around when there's a baby on the way, so maybe this is his chance to do that. But still, he probably isn't planning to stick around much after that. I see the point of finding a steady guy to be stepdad, and not wanting to confuse the kid, and not wanting a third wheel hanging around. But I do not see the point of getting the baby a temporary pretend dad.<br /><br />I think she should take advantage of the baby Moses laws. The kid will be better off.laughinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11999190808736700318noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-72503177937071530752009-11-19T07:52:41.858-05:002009-11-19T07:52:41.858-05:00Dear Tangled,
You're obviously a whorebag.
H...Dear Tangled,<br /><br />You're obviously a whorebag.<br /><br />However, you must be doing something right (anal?) if your current boyfriend is willing to look past the fact that you're a wicked slut and stay with you.<br /><br />My suggestion is to leave your current boyfriend, move to LA and while you're still young, get into the porn business. <br /><br />You're obviously doing that anyway, might as well get paid for it. They will actually pay you HIGHER when you start showing your pregnancy.<br /><br />Don't ask me how I know that.<br /><br />Then, when you're rich, you have your nannies and crap take care of the kid.<br /><br />Good luck. I'll be waiting for your first video.<br /><br />MoooooogMoooooog35https://www.blogger.com/profile/13283153659252782869noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-29864581914898371902009-11-19T07:00:36.067-05:002009-11-19T07:00:36.067-05:00Thanks so much Sandi!! And thank YOU JStar!!!Thanks so much Sandi!! And thank YOU JStar!!!Diva's Thoughtshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16177643214210147206noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-47582902716504325072009-11-18T23:22:48.101-05:002009-11-18T23:22:48.101-05:00Yes yes yes, Tee...you hit it spot on girl! Great...Yes yes yes, Tee...you hit it spot on girl! Great advice!<br />Congrats on the Honest Scrap award!<br />hugs<br />SandiSandi McBridehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09033518416111957858noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-1371333350140930242009-11-18T18:38:11.309-05:002009-11-18T18:38:11.309-05:00I totally agree with your advice!!! My brother in...I totally agree with your advice!!! My brother in that situation. It was obvious from the day he was born but now his son is about to be 6. My brother is in denial and doesnt want to know. It may be his, but there is doubt.<br /><br />CONGRATS!!! I have awarded you the Honest Scrap Award! Check my blog out!JStarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17099140114891597338noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-55513388652445989382009-11-18T14:24:40.906-05:002009-11-18T14:24:40.906-05:00Whoa! Slow down! Now that you are bringing a chi...Whoa! Slow down! Now that you are bringing a child into the world, you have to put their needs in front of your own. That means finding out who the real father is, and getting to know them (despite the feelings of your current boyfriend of less than 2 months). You don't have to marry the father, but you do need to 1. figure out who he is, and 2. get to know him well enough to judge if he is someone who will be a safe and positive presence in your child's life. Regardless of how it works out, always be honest with your child in regard to something as important as who/where his/her father is.Noellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10736409667369652381noreply@blogger.com