tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post3325525383871640220..comments2023-10-15T11:15:59.818-04:00Comments on The Diva's Random Thoughts: I See Trouble BrewingDiva's Thoughtshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16177643214210147206noreply@blogger.comBlogger20125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-86593592120638197822009-06-12T16:21:05.904-04:002009-06-12T16:21:05.904-04:00As someone who identifies with the LGBT (lesbian, ...As someone who identifies with the LGBT (lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender) community I understand the confusion and challenge surrounding gender identity and sexual orientation. Because these things can be so fluid that it may be hard to place oneself in a certain box or identify under a certain constructed label of man or women. <br /><br />He obviously trusted in you enough to share this very personal information with you. Loving your godson is the best thing you could do, but also making sure that he knows you are there for him. <br /><br />I would be more than happy to look into some counseling/support group/trans organization for you/him and for the parents. It is a tough thing to handle, but his life will be so much better once he can be truly himself. <br /><br />Have fun at the shower!SingleLADYhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00741876722182348215noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-58792516888968669032009-06-09T10:54:56.479-04:002009-06-09T10:54:56.479-04:00Well, it's too late for second guessing having...Well, it's too late for second guessing having the baby. I am sure that regardless of what the father decides the child hopefully will always be the main focus.<br /><br />I have a family member who had three children before she she came out and said I am gay and cut all her hair off. The kids seem fine. . they love her regardless.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06452688501671751879noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-8041436483198531812009-06-09T10:06:41.645-04:002009-06-09T10:06:41.645-04:00that is crazy!!! did he get a girlfriend and have ...that is crazy!!! did he get a girlfriend and have a baby to prove something to his parents??? it's going to be a long tough road for not only him but the girlfriend too!! they should sit down and talk about this before the baby arrives!sunshinestar110https://www.blogger.com/profile/06482675481139199030noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-45926851862753518362009-06-09T07:03:19.515-04:002009-06-09T07:03:19.515-04:00oh that sounds dicey, don't even have any word...oh that sounds dicey, don't even have any words, just hope for the best for everyone.Terrihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07687207048265961972noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-36711825150847933422009-06-08T19:37:42.550-04:002009-06-08T19:37:42.550-04:00It wouldn't be as bad I think if they had a st...It wouldn't be as bad I think if they had a strong support system but it sounds like that's lacking. I hope he can find happiness though and here's hoping for a good outcome.Bhttp://dreaminginthedark.orgnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-69611461224008636522009-06-08T18:07:10.544-04:002009-06-08T18:07:10.544-04:00Baby showers are to make the soon to be mom feel g...Baby showers are to make the soon to be mom feel good before she has the stress of actually having the baby. Assuming that you want the soon to be mom to feel good, go ahead and go and be nice to her even if your girlfriend just doesn't get it. Godson and his girlfriend need someone there who knows what is really going on.<br /><br />If this is the couple you mentioned before, she did say that she knew about it. So either she did know and she had this idea that a baby would change him, or she didn't care and just wanted a guy and a baby and now she at least has the baby.<br /><br />I think people should keep their pants zipped until they get married anyway, but I really don't know what is going on with a guy having sex if he really doesn't want to be a man anymore. You really should deal with that stuff first before getting seriously involved with another person and having babies and such. I just really can't see people having sex if they are so unhappy with their private parts that they are willing to have them surgically removed.laughinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11999190808736700318noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-13028657912531412182009-06-08T17:52:34.065-04:002009-06-08T17:52:34.065-04:00Look at the bright side, this won't be a post ...Look at the bright side, this won't be a post you see anywhere else-- holy cow, you can't make this stuff up! <br />What's done is done and a baby shower is to celebrate the new little life. Go in smiling and whomp the Godson upside the head when you get close enough to him.<br />I think you did the right thing, btw, especially if he knows you love him no matter what.imbeingheldhostagehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00771374087307254969noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-14032045389713810122009-06-08T17:35:34.901-04:002009-06-08T17:35:34.901-04:00Sounds like tough and complicated issue all around...Sounds like tough and complicated issue all around. It's sad for everybody it sounds.Renaissance Womanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16958178544581250567noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-79203646030393754952009-06-08T13:58:08.258-04:002009-06-08T13:58:08.258-04:00wow what a situation and I'm glad that it is h...wow what a situation and I'm glad that it is happening to you and not me, HA ;) I guess have fun at the shower?!Tonyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15816260131470363977noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-7343078215381822022009-06-08T08:44:45.716-04:002009-06-08T08:44:45.716-04:00The kid will live through it.
Don't ask me ho...The kid will live through it.<br /><br />Don't ask me how I know that.Moooooog35https://www.blogger.com/profile/13283153659252782869noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-43199361458347451092009-06-07T21:26:00.503-04:002009-06-07T21:26:00.503-04:00As long as the mother is okay with it, I think thi...As long as the mother is okay with it, I think things will be okay. They have a hard road ahead of them, but as long as he's being open then more power to himMaxiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16309902108360535182noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-12981872953935641492009-06-06T13:34:34.450-04:002009-06-06T13:34:34.450-04:00That is a very crazy situation! I agree with the ...That is a very crazy situation! I agree with the others as far as the questions regarding counseling and the g/f knowledge of the situation.<br /><br />I try to pride myself on being open minded but I cannot imagine what it must feel like to be a parent of a child/adult with these issues. But it doesn't sound to me that they have been very supportive to him.<br /><br />What a mess.The Dishnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-34662759667326985222009-06-06T12:42:01.351-04:002009-06-06T12:42:01.351-04:00Actually, drama-promising baby showers seem to be ...Actually, drama-promising baby showers seem to be all the rage lately... such an odd phenomenon. I suppose it's the 21st century... things are just different now! Enjoy sitting back and watching the show...rachaelgkinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18002691394373545956noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-32316195572790659222009-06-06T08:18:57.720-04:002009-06-06T08:18:57.720-04:00Ohhhhhh no. Not good at all. Makes me downright sa...Ohhhhhh no. Not good at all. Makes me downright sad and trouble is definitely afoot. :-(Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04135190793124857820noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-43769038641136986042009-06-06T08:09:03.548-04:002009-06-06T08:09:03.548-04:00Wow! What a crazy, complicated situation to bring ...Wow! What a crazy, complicated situation to bring a baby into. I'm curious too about how much the g/f knows & what she thinks of his crisis.lisaqhttp://20-forty.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-70957878259597041612009-06-06T03:28:23.441-04:002009-06-06T03:28:23.441-04:00Girl, I gotta hand it to you. When you say this is...Girl, I gotta hand it to you. When you say this is a problem and to follow it closely cause it's a doosie, you just aren't whistling Dixie, are you?<br />And his parents don't have a clue about this stuff? Maybe he isn't really a trans-gender after all? Has he seen/talked to any professional counselors who deal strictly with gender identity issues? And yes, what about the biological mother too? Does she even have clue one about these things? Hell of a quandry going on here. I dunno but I'm thinking the best place to start is to find out if he has had any kind of counseling, then try to figure out a way for the parents to be supportive of him, regardless of whatever choice he may make eventually.Jenihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16425701332785470116noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-48236349210373416512009-06-06T02:50:24.505-04:002009-06-06T02:50:24.505-04:00what in the world!!!!!!!!what in the world!!!!!!!!*Tanyetta*https://www.blogger.com/profile/14339189484151758472noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-41933395033607673602009-06-05T20:52:20.130-04:002009-06-05T20:52:20.130-04:00Wow! Just not good.
Too bad he could not confide...Wow! Just not good.<br /><br />Too bad he could not confide in his mom. Are we sure he's the daddy???Hit 40https://www.blogger.com/profile/18043350255090631652noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-49743458173230453002009-06-05T19:47:05.916-04:002009-06-05T19:47:05.916-04:00Does the girl know about his issues? Wow. In the U...Does the girl know about his issues? Wow. In the US, it seems sooo OK to be open about your sexuality. But then, there are those people who won't even let their gay brothers and sisters hang out with their kids.<br />Like the gay is going to rub off on the lil tykes.<br />Sad.The Ambiguous Blobhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07167553555513633437noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-30046047269816654082009-06-05T19:26:02.335-04:002009-06-05T19:26:02.335-04:00It does sound like a bumpy road ahead but what was...It does sound like a bumpy road ahead but what was the girl thinking to get pregnant by someone who doesn't have his own life together yet.Queen-Size funny bonehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14134308455271808356noreply@blogger.com