tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post4643777322692345705..comments2023-10-15T11:15:59.818-04:00Comments on The Diva's Random Thoughts: I am really judgmentalDiva's Thoughtshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16177643214210147206noreply@blogger.comBlogger27125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-15504305379768558152007-12-09T11:52:00.000-05:002007-12-09T11:52:00.000-05:00I also try not to be judgemental...but we are huma...I also try not to be judgemental...but we are human, and it is perfectly understood that we are and will be judgemental to a point...it's always funny though when i do judge someone and they turn out to be completely opposite, so though i may judge, i'm still open to whomever they are or want to be.Mizrepresenthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02992754393960138393noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-19673893054285063522007-12-07T16:16:00.000-05:002007-12-07T16:16:00.000-05:00I think I am too caught up on myself to even notic...I think I am too caught up on myself to even notice someone long enough to be judgemental.<BR/><BR/>...yea...so what! lol I am clueless most times.Blah Blah Blahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01705137082476839411noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-11856477314399963002007-12-05T22:51:00.000-05:002007-12-05T22:51:00.000-05:00You are going to rot in hell you hypocrite!!!!!!!!...You are going to rot in hell you hypocrite!!!!!!!!<BR/><BR/>Whatever you know its normal to judge just don’t act on it, if that makes sense. Just because someone looks like a nerd don’t go out of your way not to talk to them or befriend them. Look what happened when I talked to Joe and vise versa, he probably thought I was a hoochie. Now look where we are, looking at somewhere between happily ever after or something like that. <BR/><BR/>Its okay we all do it. I still make fun of Joe!!!!! Just kidding!!!!Adriannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01159466380188918072noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-50029285558098641072007-12-05T20:54:00.000-05:002007-12-05T20:54:00.000-05:00Everyone judges other people. We're use to our li...Everyone judges other people. We're use to our lives and all that it entails so when we see something we wouldn't do then we judge them. I don't think its mean. Its natural. What is mean, however, is acting on it. Like hate crimes and slander. So what if in your own mind think Oh what a hoocie mama to dress like that. Once the thought is complete you're done w/her, right? But to go out to her car and write WHORE on it is a whole 'nuther Oprah.*~*Cece*~*https://www.blogger.com/profile/00373628439213049604noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-47091470262299789152007-12-05T20:16:00.000-05:002007-12-05T20:16:00.000-05:00Ditto what Betty said :)Ditto what Betty said :)*Tanyetta*https://www.blogger.com/profile/14339189484151758472noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-81607088524169678702007-12-05T18:11:00.000-05:002007-12-05T18:11:00.000-05:00We ALL do it. Anybody who says they don't is delud...We ALL do it. Anybody who says they don't is deluded or a liar.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-42853274861440746952007-12-05T15:31:00.000-05:002007-12-05T15:31:00.000-05:00This is exactly why I started my charmcityscene bl...This is exactly why I started my charmcityscene blog. I don't want my city to be judged by TV programs like The Wire or statistics like the murder rate. There is always more to a person or a place.charmcitygirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06332283610637664775noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-46797429322830732072007-12-05T14:44:00.000-05:002007-12-05T14:44:00.000-05:00you're not judgemental... just very perceptive. bi...you're not judgemental... just very perceptive. big difference.<BR/><BR/>...hey! what's wrong with nerds?!?<BR/><BR/>=:-)minijonbhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13310827608075981019noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-54495993208424697482007-12-05T13:42:00.000-05:002007-12-05T13:42:00.000-05:00Well, we all gotta think about something, right? a...Well, we all gotta think about something, right? at least you aren't shoving your thoughts on other's.<BR/><BR/>and as sizzle said, it is a noble thing to pursue.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-19662671392803994922007-12-05T10:46:00.000-05:002007-12-05T10:46:00.000-05:00sounds like it but u r col, u called it yourselfsounds like it but u r col, u called it yourselfAll-Mi-T [Thought Crime] Rawdawgbuffalohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08843040863123899426noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-87743583403682820452007-12-05T07:41:00.000-05:002007-12-05T07:41:00.000-05:00as much as i hate to say it, i think we all judge ...as much as i hate to say it, i think we all judge on some level...lisa q.https://www.blogger.com/profile/16685625884419877570noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-78217737270894493472007-12-05T06:58:00.000-05:002007-12-05T06:58:00.000-05:00I think subconsciously we all judge others and our...I think subconsciously we all judge others and ourselves. Albeit some are a tad more judgmental than others but still I don't think it is possible to be 100% non-judging(hehe)Shantihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07728933623182306442noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-41764768558538778412007-12-04T20:05:00.000-05:002007-12-04T20:05:00.000-05:00We all judge... even if we dont say it out loud.Wo...We all judge... even if we dont say it out loud.<BR/>Would be nice not to... but we're humans. :PRitahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03922129207090504251noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-58024831981467879132007-12-04T18:37:00.000-05:002007-12-04T18:37:00.000-05:00I am extremely judgemental! It's a terrible thing...I am extremely judgemental! It's a terrible thing because I totally lose out on so much. Whenever I judge a person harshly, it'll inevitably turn out that they are a good person and I have to eat my words. If I was more foregiving of people's flaws, I'd probably have a boyfriend and lots of friends, but instead, I get on my high horse and make snap judgements against people and then I lose out on the friendships I could have formed.CarmenSinCityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12587202239830809100noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-22209488639507738372007-12-04T14:14:00.000-05:002007-12-04T14:14:00.000-05:00Judgements are labels, aren't they? And we can't l...Judgements are labels, aren't they? And we can't label anyone unless we really know them....david mcmahonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18009095220051075552noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-55008309176629845022007-12-04T14:09:00.000-05:002007-12-04T14:09:00.000-05:00I feel you to the fullest. Some people are natural...I feel you to the fullest. Some people are natural haters. They hate on everything - when you are up or down. They do.<BR/><BR/>The thing is - is you are down & out, they wouldn't give a ish.<BR/><BR/>My line of thought is - DO YOU, and let me be me. <BR/><BR/>And I know you feel me.Donhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02904024507867487521noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-80410374569764677472007-12-04T13:00:00.000-05:002007-12-04T13:00:00.000-05:00I think we'd all like to consider ourselves non-ju...I think we'd all like to consider ourselves non-judgemental but it's impossible not to mix our gut reactions to things with our judgement of people - having said that it doesn't have to change the way you treat that person...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-17404044175729440662007-12-04T11:15:00.000-05:002007-12-04T11:15:00.000-05:00yea..we ALL have a bit of the "judgmental" bone in...yea..we ALL have a bit of the "judgmental" bone in our bodies...dont feel left out..as accepting as I can be..i find myself judging things as well.Ms.Ladyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07022940530360142375noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-50669160067277014482007-12-04T09:22:00.000-05:002007-12-04T09:22:00.000-05:00I'm kind of with Karen. I didn't judge people, un...I'm kind of with Karen. I didn't judge people, unless they were doing something to me. Well, that's not quite right. If I knew someone was having sex with someone they weren't in a committed relationship with, I judged, but I didn't say anything about it. <BR/><BR/>But I guess that's wrong. I guess that's how things got so crazy out there. People do all this crap and no one says anything to them. <BR/><BR/>So then along came the Homewrecking-Slut. And there was just no talking sense to her, cause she just couldn't get it through her head that she was doing anything wrong. It was like she didn't even know that she was a slut.<BR/><BR/>As for the other stuff, I don't much care what people dress like. I hug just about everybody, as long as they've had a shower first.laughinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11999190808736700318noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-28102902443920193902007-12-03T17:52:00.000-05:002007-12-03T17:52:00.000-05:00I totally judge people who wear provocative outfit...I totally judge people who wear provocative outfits. I just do. If they arent on the beach, they should cover up. That's what I think.Stepping Over the Junkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09165163020885309533noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-76264610207537144082007-12-03T17:28:00.000-05:002007-12-03T17:28:00.000-05:00Hey Diva! Not that you are confused or that you n...Hey Diva! Not that you are confused or that you need an explanation, but what you are describing aren't judgements but they are perceptions. Perceptions are attempts to understand. They can be influenced by what we see, hear, believe, our culture, etc. While many of our perceptions may need to change they aren't judgements until we act on them. Talking about someone's lifestyle or questioning their appearance is a perception issue. It's not a judgement until you follow the thought with an action that both parties understand. Like, I'm not going to hire you because you are wearing those short shorts (I would hire you though if you wore them =>) I bet you have nice legs (now, you are perceiving me to be a freaky guy - and you'd be sort of correct. If you like freaky people, act on your thoughts and send me an email. If not - then stop judging me! LOLsoumynonahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05669140007077271313noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-54346047005945566272007-12-03T15:55:00.000-05:002007-12-03T15:55:00.000-05:00Hey, judging little things like that, no, you real...Hey, judging little things like that, no, you really aren't judgemental, just have your own opnions, and at least you don't push them on anyone!Vihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03765245225983839101noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-728351168556648422007-12-03T14:34:00.000-05:002007-12-03T14:34:00.000-05:00I think we all judge people at some point. But whe...I think we all judge people at some point. <BR/><BR/>But when you sit down with people and thats the majority of your conversation....something is wrong.Charihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00148087840882038446noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-60925098867847026702007-12-03T14:22:00.000-05:002007-12-03T14:22:00.000-05:00i don't think we can be entirely free from judgmen...i don't think we can be entirely free from judgment but it is a good and noble thing to pursue.Sizzlehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00182860438430294750noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-85136812356299423322007-12-03T14:10:00.000-05:002007-12-03T14:10:00.000-05:00I think on some level, we all judge others. We may...I think on some level, we all judge others. We may not mean too, but we do. We're only human ya know!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com