tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post931861773366534431..comments2023-10-15T11:15:59.818-04:00Comments on The Diva's Random Thoughts: Ok...You've Got To Go.Diva's Thoughtshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16177643214210147206noreply@blogger.comBlogger25125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-50341641936378484832008-02-01T12:49:00.000-05:002008-02-01T12:49:00.000-05:00Its time for him to go Diva.You are only hurting y...Its time for him to go Diva.<BR/>You are only hurting yourself with the truth.<BR/>Your gut NEVER lies.<BR/>You know its over.<BR/>Time to move on gurl.<BR/>YOU.WILL.BE.JUST. FINE FINE FINE FINE FINE FINE Hoooo!!<BR/>Lol...thought Id make ya' laugh a bit.Ms.Ladyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07022940530360142375noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-37759867231307605602008-01-26T10:40:00.000-05:002008-01-26T10:40:00.000-05:00Sounds like you are in a situation-I hope it works...Sounds like you are in a situation-I hope it works out for you!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-47847892877702698102008-01-25T18:39:00.000-05:002008-01-25T18:39:00.000-05:00Think Nike! (Just Do It!)Why is he there in the fi...Think Nike! (Just Do It!)<BR/>Why is he there in the first place? Life is to short to be unfulfilled and to emotionally (and other ways) support someone who is not returning the favor.<BR/><BR/>"Free your mind and the rest will follow."Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-44262576448856793852008-01-23T18:38:00.000-05:002008-01-23T18:38:00.000-05:00I would be interested to know how much per month h...I would be interested to know how much per month he pays to stay with you. Maybe there is a motel or extended stay place that he could go for the same amount of money. Or maybe if it would cost just a bit more, you might want to pay the difference and be rid of him tomorrow.laughinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11999190808736700318noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-41966932185787025512008-01-23T15:48:00.000-05:002008-01-23T15:48:00.000-05:00Diva, you are too much a Diva to live in a prison....Diva, you are too much a Diva to live in a prison. Perhaps suggest that you need a little space so that he can move back to his place. Still call him for a few days to see where his head is and if its still wishy washy then cut off all ties!!! Quite easy to say this but I know its tough to do it<BR/>'Huggzzz'soumynonahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05669140007077271313noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-17200512790033929282008-01-23T01:29:00.000-05:002008-01-23T01:29:00.000-05:00That's so, so rough.When I lived with my boyfriend...That's so, so rough.<BR/><BR/>When I lived with my boyfriend all of last year, the last four months were just utterly miserable.<BR/><BR/>And then he cheated on me.<BR/><BR/>The end of the lease was a blessing. I've never felt so wonderful to be on my own.Rachelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08607519995282396892noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-55216994520390722642008-01-22T20:05:00.000-05:002008-01-22T20:05:00.000-05:00Do you have any male family members that can help ...Do you have any male family members that can help show him the door?Tired of being brokehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02026029030939029254noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-59571351291283731332008-01-22T17:39:00.000-05:002008-01-22T17:39:00.000-05:00That is so tough, good luck!That is so tough, good luck!Freckle Face Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13324960438835000817noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-82552351231532736292008-01-22T15:02:00.000-05:002008-01-22T15:02:00.000-05:00Girl give him an outdate...aint nothing like being...Girl give him an outdate...<BR/><BR/>aint nothing like being uncomfortable in your own home... the one place you go to for solace when the rest of the world is messing with you.<BR/><BR/>Its not your problem he cant afford a place of his own. Tell him he has to be out by March 1st. I think that is plenty of time for him to get an alternative living situation...<BR/><BR/>and it that meantime dont allow him to suck you back in so that he knows you are serious about that date. Dont sleep in the same bed, and show no affection... I know its going to be hard... but its the only way... you have to think of yourself first.<BR/><BR/>It will be in perfect timing too... right before spring... when its easier than ever to get back into the dating scene.<BR/><BR/>Good luck girl!Eb the Celebhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12920888116302185562noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-77433913959899468002008-01-22T13:30:00.000-05:002008-01-22T13:30:00.000-05:00Diva -We women have this thing called intuition an...Diva -<BR/>We women have this thing called intuition and it works. Even as painful as it might be we were all born with this. Kick him out, I bet that is the reason why, he doesn't want a roommate and he thinks your just playin and he can do what he wants. <BR/>First send him to get some medication for his behavior and secondly kick his shit out and say peace out, I am too good for you. You arrogant bleep, bleep, bleep, bleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeep!!! And smile as he drives away!!!!Adriannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01159466380188918072noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-35630031498311734482008-01-22T13:22:00.000-05:002008-01-22T13:22:00.000-05:00give him a little push, yeah?give him a little push, yeah?The Ambiguous Blobhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07167553555513633437noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-53267767886307030482008-01-22T11:50:00.000-05:002008-01-22T11:50:00.000-05:00Like a band-aid....RIGHT OFF!Don't worry about Mr....Like a band-aid....RIGHT OFF!<BR/><BR/>Don't worry about Mr. Right, worry about Mr. Right Now and get his ass out.<BR/><BR/>Why not just tell him he has to be out by the weekend. If you set a date too far out, he may have time to change your mind again.<BR/><BR/>Where did he come from? Why can't he go back to where he was before he began sponging off of you?<BR/><BR/>He's an adult, not your child, it's not your responsibility to make sure he has a place. This has been going on for a month now, that we readers know of. <BR/><BR/>Trust me, I'm the biggest procrastinator, but maybe a fast split up is best.<BR/><BR/>Keep off the Manager for a bit. He's dicked you around before too, I think...<BR/><BR/>Good Luck, stay strong!shortyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09646106228386001678noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-27610671508882229562008-01-22T07:40:00.000-05:002008-01-22T07:40:00.000-05:00"I need peace and to maintain my sanity and the on..."I need peace and to maintain my sanity and the only way to do that is to get him out." Yep, and not only do you need it, you deserve it! He's got to go!lisa q.https://www.blogger.com/profile/16685625884419877570noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-75391102164542172892008-01-21T21:16:00.000-05:002008-01-21T21:16:00.000-05:00KICK...HIM..OUT!:)KICK...HIM..OUT!<BR/><BR/>:)Charihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00148087840882038446noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-58959874844242562422008-01-21T18:08:00.000-05:002008-01-21T18:08:00.000-05:00I'm with the rest...it's time you give him a deadl...I'm with the rest...it's time you give him a deadline to move...he is injuring your spirit.Mizrepresenthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02992754393960138393noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-79861645717469509092008-01-21T15:54:00.000-05:002008-01-21T15:54:00.000-05:00I hope you get him out of your house and life soon...I hope you get him out of your house and life soon, for your own sanity.Vihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03765245225983839101noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-87921901693610867902008-01-21T15:51:00.000-05:002008-01-21T15:51:00.000-05:00Want me to come over and kick his ass out? I have ...Want me to come over and kick his ass out? <BR/><BR/>I have no idea what area he needs but I know of a place that has 1 bedrooms with utilites for $800 a month.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-71158214260859063222008-01-21T14:08:00.000-05:002008-01-21T14:08:00.000-05:00If you were married or maybe even engaged, that wo...If you were married or maybe even engaged, that would be another thing entirely. But when you're just dating, you need a place to go and get away from him. And this is going to be especially important if you want the whole work from home thing to work out. You can't have your ex or your on-and-off boyfriend hanging out at your place of work, even if that happens to be your living room.laughinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11999190808736700318noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-33264354932477430052008-01-21T13:02:00.000-05:002008-01-21T13:02:00.000-05:00find your peace !!find your peace !!GirlyFruFruhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18206816510232846539noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-83192143742550009022008-01-21T12:53:00.000-05:002008-01-21T12:53:00.000-05:00I agree with all the other comments. Having him in...I agree with all the other comments. Having him in the house is a daily reminder of whats not working in your life. I hope you get the strength to put him out and move on. I wish you the best.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-37215946835682988902008-01-21T12:30:00.000-05:002008-01-21T12:30:00.000-05:00I agree with DMarks also. Give him until Feb. 15 ...I agree with DMarks also. Give him until Feb. 15 (or wahtever) and that's it. It is YOUR home. You have to do what is healthy for you.Karenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14978375225313974459noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-20646671778525304902008-01-21T12:04:00.000-05:002008-01-21T12:04:00.000-05:00Looks like The Analyst is on his way out the door....Looks like The Analyst is on his way out the door. Get that peace you need, by all means.Donhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02904024507867487521noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-39295954477240501852008-01-21T11:43:00.000-05:002008-01-21T11:43:00.000-05:00i cant add anything more than what has already bee...i cant add anything more than what has already been stated.<BR/><BR/>Peace and hugs to you my acquired sister. smile!dc_speakshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06357394041753433558noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-90432762211728985382008-01-21T10:55:00.000-05:002008-01-21T10:55:00.000-05:00I'm in agreement with DMarks. I went through this...I'm in agreement with DMarks. I went through this with a roommate and told 'em that they HAD to leave by a certain date and I held that date. No whining, no cajoling, no b*tchin'. Finito - out.<BR/><BR/>I hate seeing you go through this crap. There is no need for YOUR life to be in limbo for his interests. *hugz*Lyshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06412919184087521013noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-40069846288365830632008-01-21T09:51:00.000-05:002008-01-21T09:51:00.000-05:00Can you set a concrete deadline? Reading this, I c...Can you set a concrete deadline? Reading this, I can't come to any other conclusion than he has to get out now.dmarkshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07269773990064736457noreply@blogger.com