Ok, how many of you knew right from the very beginning what time of mate you were attracted too? It seems I have known since I was 10 years old what time of guy I was attracted too. It may sound weird but it’s true. When I was in the 5th grade there was this little boy named Joseph and I was so in love with this guy. Well, as much in love as a 10 year old could be anyway. LOL He, of course, paid me absolutely no mind. He was very, very cute. What most would call a pretty boy.
Then when I was 11, there was this little boy around my neighborhood that I was also in love with. He did, however, become my boyfriend (for the summer only). He was also a very cute boy but he was also the neighborhood bad boy. This kid was always getting into trouble. He’s the one I shared my very first kiss with. I swear I saw stars when we kissed!! I shit you not. LOL
Then there was Morris. Oh my goodness! I had the biggest crush on him. He was also a pretty boy.
Can you see a pattern here? Every boy/man I have ever been attracted too have all looked the same. They’ve been pretty boys and had a little bad boy in them as well.
I have been consistent in the men I wanted since I was 10 years old.
Hmmmmmm…..I wonder what that says about me?
LOL
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Wednesday, May 30, 2007
I know what I like
Posted by Diva's Thoughts at 9:17 AM22 People saying stuff:
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I think most women are attracted to bad boys. I was a good boy, so I had trouble finding someone. I waited for a good girl.
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May 30, 2007 at 9:42 AM
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You just know what you want! :-) I have a certain type of man I like and anytime I deviate, it doesn't work. SO I will stick to what I know and like/love ;-)
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May 30, 2007 at 10:00 AM
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i've always (i thought) been attracted to tall guys with an athletic build...China is the exception...he's 5'7", and though he has some hella abs, he's not your typical athletic type...then i remembered the cute lil Japanese boy who sent me a 'do you like me, check yes or no' note in 2nd grade...hmmmmmm...maybe i've been chasin' the wrong type all this time!
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May 30, 2007 at 10:05 AM
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I must be the only one who likes good boys too...
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May 30, 2007 at 10:33 AM
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dag...that's funny, and I've never really thought about it until now, but I guess I've always liked the same type too...a quite but cool dude...he's not loud but he's popular just because.
I had a 2nd grade crush too, on this guy named Eric; he was kinda a pretty boy, but he was nice quiet sweet and attentive even then...then in 5th grade I had a crush on this guy of the same characteristics...whoes name was ALSO Eric...HEYYYYYY, maybe I just like ERIC'S...LOL. -
May 30, 2007 at 10:35 AM
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I seem to go for tall dark and handsome, and alchololics. Maybe because I meet all of them in the pub?
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May 30, 2007 at 11:33 AM
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Girl, you like what you like, at least you know. And what i often notice is that we seem to attract the same type as well, over time. I find intelligence, humor, and physical fitness, supersexy...so my past men have been athletes, scholars and real funny dudes.
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May 30, 2007 at 1:03 PM
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Since I was a teen, I have liked a friendly guy who was smart and not a thuggish type. Funny thing though with friendly nice guys, they attract tons of females.
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May 30, 2007 at 3:13 PM
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awwwww!at all d childhood crushes..me i have been rather inconsistent...the 1st guy i liked was in elemenatary schl n he was light skinned and the one afterthat was also light skinned..but now i prefer dark skinned guy!
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May 30, 2007 at 8:31 PM
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hey i like your template..where u get it from
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May 30, 2007 at 8:34 PM
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Guy's point of view, thinking to way back when. The girls I "fell for" or whatever were pretty much all different from each other. Except for the names repeating and stuff like that.
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May 30, 2007 at 8:55 PM
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That's pretty interesting. The kind of guys I dated in the past tended to vary and didn't look similar either. I can't really think of anything they had in common except they were all jerks, except my husband. LOL!
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May 30, 2007 at 10:00 PM
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Any girl who likes lego is okay in my book.
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May 31, 2007 at 12:42 AM
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sometimes i wish i knew what i liked but it keeps changing!
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May 31, 2007 at 10:40 AM
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I'm all for a "good guy" myself. Always have been and hopefully, always will be.
Looks for me however vary from time to time. -
May 31, 2007 at 1:24 PM
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Employing my secret agent deductive skills, I would say that your perfect mate would be 10 years old, which might land you in jail.
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May 31, 2007 at 8:18 PM
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you know what you like! i heard that.
my husband is quiet, i'm loud. opposites attract i suppose????
i love your blog!!! :) -
May 31, 2007 at 8:25 PM
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I dated the same sort of controlling men until now...yet in terms of appearances and professions and hobbies, TOTALLY different. And then, Chef, is complete opposite, in all ways of all of them. SO maybe I broke the pattern.
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June 1, 2007 at 7:10 AM
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I figured out "my type" when I was fairly young too, but I married someone completely different & it turned out to be better.
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June 1, 2007 at 8:14 AM
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I've been all over the map when it comes to "type". So far, there is only one woman that I've ever completely fallen for the first time I saw her and she turned out to so be more than I ever dreamed possible. Perhaps there is something to your theory.
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June 1, 2007 at 8:56 AM
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LMAO.. just that you like pretty boys with a streak of bad boy in them.. YOU DON'T WANT NO PUNK! lol
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June 5, 2007 at 2:37 PM
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That's funny, Mz Diva that u can track your pattern back to age 10. Hmmmm, i don't think i have a type...as long as a Brother is taller than me & i like the chemistry between us - it's ON!! My friends often laugh when they look through my photos of ex's & comment "U really DON'T have a pattern." though they all have to be confident & able to handle themselves;-)
I just LOVE MEN!!!LOL!
thanx for the memories:-) -
June 6, 2007 at 11:12 AM
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