I remember shortly after my divorce my fathers cousin Hector had come to visit us. Although my father had long passed on Hector and his family continued to keep in touch.
While during his visit my mother, Hector and I decided to go out and grab some dinner at a local restaurant. It was at this time good ol’ Hector decided to start questioning me about my failed marriage.
He asked me if I “had been close to a guy before”. I without thinking said “Sure. Not as close as my ex but close nonetheless.” I didn’t want him to think I had just jumped at the first guy that came along because that couldn’t be farther from the truth.
After pondering for several weeks on why he was in my business I began to wonder, “Was this fool asking me if I was a virgin when I got married? Right in front of my mother?”
The hell was his problem?
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Wednesday, January 21, 2009
Cousin Hector
Posted by Diva's Thoughts at 12:01 PM
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He's just a nosey ass guy.
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January 21, 2009 at 12:09 PM
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Men and some of their more absurd questions and comments. Go figure I guess.
BTW -I tagged you the other day. Nothing difficult though cause if it were, you know damned well I wouldn't have done the meme in the first place! -
January 21, 2009 at 12:17 PM
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Like it is any of his business...
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January 21, 2009 at 1:24 PM
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Some folks just don't give a crap about being polite is what I think.
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January 21, 2009 at 1:27 PM
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wow..thats why I evade questions from my family about my relationship at all costs! lol some things just dont need to be known lol
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January 21, 2009 at 1:33 PM
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wow what guts!
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January 21, 2009 at 3:51 PM
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Unfortunately, Everyone has a cousin hector in their lives!
So what happened AFTER you threw water in his face?
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January 21, 2009 at 8:48 PM
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And that should have been your answer...why does the right answer always come as an afterthought?
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January 21, 2009 at 8:51 PM
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um...gross.
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January 21, 2009 at 9:03 PM
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Sounds like he was asking such a question! Dirty Hector.
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January 22, 2009 at 12:15 AM
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Sometimes people are just ridiculous. Unfortunately, family is more ridiculous than the rest.
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January 22, 2009 at 7:14 AM
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If he was going to be THAT nosy, he might as well have come out and said it, instead of using that vague wording.
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January 22, 2009 at 8:43 AM
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lol that's too funny and you told him that you were closer to your ex's! lol
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January 22, 2009 at 12:07 PM
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Yep, that's why I don't talk to fam about who I'm dating. Especially male family members. That was very rude of him. And what would your answer have to do with anything!?
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January 22, 2009 at 6:30 PM
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How funny! Hector is a snoop!
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January 22, 2009 at 9:50 PM
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y care what others think
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January 23, 2009 at 10:42 AM
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You have to admire family. That is too funny! You are so sweet answering the questions then realizing he set you up. OH Cousin Hector!!!!!!!!!!
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January 23, 2009 at 2:05 PM
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hmmmmmm - weird. Like Queen said - he's just a nosey fucker. You know how they can be.
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January 23, 2009 at 5:46 PM
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Wow, talk about having a set!
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January 23, 2009 at 8:57 PM
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I just love how people lost their sense of tact along the way... oh , and also how sometimes it takes a few weeks for us to understand what someone is really saying sometimes.
I do that all the time :-) -
January 23, 2009 at 10:55 PM
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Creepy...
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January 26, 2009 at 6:46 AM
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