Thursday, December 20, 2007

Decisions

Have you ever made a decision only to question it later? I am really beginning to wonder if I made the right decision about something. I think I made a mistake.

I can't really discuss this with friends because they will form their own thoughts and opinions and nothing will change that and if everything works out it will make for a very uncomfortable situation.

I know I am being vague but I'm not really ready to disclose the details as yet. In time.

Suffice to say that I think I will need to make yet another hard decision and soon. Oh man what am I going to do.

I think I need to get out of this situation because it's not working for me. I don't think it ever will and that saddens me on several levels.

Oh well...I have some soul searching to do.

19 People saying stuff:

charmcitygirl said...

Sounds like man stuff to me. Hindsight is 20/20 but we sure can be blind in the present time. There are two things I have learned through the years, one is to trust your instinct, the other is to pray.

Noe said...

I'll keep you in my thoughts and hope you find the answers you need to. It's not easy to 'soul search' sometimes. As charmcitygrl said: trust your instints, pray and whatever the outcome of what you decided to do, always be positive. there's always light at the end of the tunnel.

abbagirl74 said...

That's a tough one. I say - go with your gut/heart. You have to make the right decision for you. Besides, you are the one who has to live with it. Hope it all works out for the best. I am sending positive vibes your way!

Karen said...

Even when you make the wrong the decision, it is a learning lesson. I try to look at it that way anyway. Trust your gut.

Sarah R said...

I hope you're able to sort everything out!

MysTery said...

Just pray about it and ask for guidance.

I will be praying for you.

TravelDiva said...

Definitely relationship issue. If you tell people, then it works out, they will a) hate the guy; and b) look at you sideways. I COMPLETELY understand. Am currently in a similar situation,, but am trying to let go and let God.

CarmenSinCity said...

I was thinking it's a man situation too. Sounds like it anyway. Those are the worst situations in the world. I never know what to do when it comes to men and usually I make the wrong choices. But oh well, it's a learning and growing experience right??

Freckle Face Girl said...

Life is about learning from our mistakes, so it is normal to second guessing yourself. Sometimes that is the only way for us to fix things. Hopefully, you will suddenly become enlightened & be able to work the whole thing out. Good luck!

Suze said...

Sorry that you're going through some serious stuff - especially around the holidays. Hang in there.

Mizrepresent said...

Hey lady, hang tuff, and pray about it...you will get your answer. Gosh, i hate tough decisions!

tAnYeTTa said...

*taking off my earrings* who's messing with you? let me know. that offer about ray-ray and 'nem still stands girl :)

p.s. hope you're working through this with someone you can trust and lean on without judgments! HUGS!

lisa q. said...

must be something in the air girl...got myself in the same damn kind of situation...pretty sure the decision was a waaaaaaaay bad one and will have to be rectified ASAP...good luck with yours...

magnoliapeach said...

I totally HATE hard decisions. Trust your intuition and not "feelings", and pray on the best way to handle it. I know it will all work out in the end.

K.O. Johnson said...

Soul searching eh? Take it to the Father. After all, He specializes in matters of the soul.

laughingattheslut said...

Well, I could make a couple of guesses, but I think I'll keep them to myself.

Vi vi vi vooom!!!!!!!! said...

Yep I reckon it's bloke stuff. Feel free to tell us when you are ready. Merry Christmas!

Ann(ie) said...

That is never fun. Or easy. Thinking of you and dish when you're ready....we're always here to listen!!

not said...

Hi! I'm catching up today. Hope your search is going well and that you had a good holiday.

peace,
NFH