Monday, June 29, 2009

Do You Realize What You Are Saying?

Ok, I went on date #2 with the new guy. We will call him Photo Dude. Photo Dude is a good tennis player and a good pool player so as we were walking around the mall we decided that this would be a great time for him to give me a pool lesson as I suck royally at pool. It just so happens that there is a Dave and Busters right there in the mall! What are the chances? So we enter D & B and thus begin my pool lesson. I must admit, Photo Dude is a really, really good pool player. Better then any other guy that has ever tried to teach me to play. I was impressed.

After the lesson we decided to sit at the bar and just chit chat for a bit. This is where things get really interesting. We inevitably begin to talk about the differences between men and women.

Photo Dude was trying to convince me that it was inherently ingrained in the male DNA to cheat and that it is extremely difficult for a man to not cheat. He says the chances of getting caught are so rare that it outweighs the consequence. Huh?

Does he realize he’s telling the woman he is supposed to be interested in and wooing that men will cheat and there is nothing we can do about it? Yeah, that just makes me want to just jump right into your arms and declare my undying love buddy. Sweet!

I said to him, “You do realize you are making a great argument for never getting married right?” He says, “Yeah, I know.” Then tries his best to back peddle out of the hole he had dug for himself.

Yeah, I want to get involved with a self proclaimed cheater.


26 People saying stuff:

JSADTheKing said...

LOL at least it didn't waste to much of your time before letting you see his true colors.

Lys said...

Has he done lost his daggone mind? Thankfully you caught his true persona immediately. Next!

shorty said...

What happened to the last one....the chatty one?

Tee aka The Diva's Thoughts said...

Shorty-I just couldn't take it anymore so he is GONE. LOL

Karen said...

That was not the time to actually have that conversation, but Mr. Photo is actually correct. Men are genetically hunters. It is their genetic drive to spread their "seed" to as many women as possible to sustain the human race. Women are genetically (and physically) predisposed to be the care-take for one baby at a time, but men can get many women pregnant at one time.

So from a biological and anthropological point of view, the guy was correct. HOWEVER, humans have developed the moral standards and physical capactity to deny those instincts. LOL. So it is no excuse for cheating.

Tanyetta said...

like fred g. sanford would say:

he's a big dummy!

CarmenSinCity said...

Geez - he's a real moron! What was he thinking?

Mz.Hopeful said...

he is an idiot!

Hit 40 said...

My sister and I are both married to men who would never cheat on us.

They are both too damn cheap to buy someone dinner or a movie ticket!! Seriously!!!!

Jeni said...

OMG! By the sounds of things here, I think my ex-husband must have ditched wife #5 and is now, free-wheeling around Baltimore! Wonder when this happened? And his attitude hasn't changed one iota either. (I always said he was a slow learner, ya know.)

Cerebrally_Orgasmic said...

I might get persecuted for saying this but..the guy was letting you know right upfront what his mindset was before you guys got hot and heavy. At that point, it would have been REALLY hard for you to pull back. This dude actually did you a favor. C'mon Miss Diva..let's move to the next date!!! Lol.

Mike said...

LMAO. At least he was upfront and honest with you even though I don't think he meant to.

shorty said...

You really burn through them.

Teach me : )

Sandi McBride said...

These are the same men who when killing their supposedly cheating wives call it a crime of passion...whose passion is never quite clear! I think you're well shed of this one my friend!
hugs
Sandi

asthmagirl said...

At least you got a decent pool shooting lesson out of the date.

imbeingheldhostage said...

where are you finding these guys?????

Liam said...

This guy is not very smart and does not know how to treat a Lady.

I believe that men need to have a lot of sexual partners by nature. So that's why they can stay single until they get it out of their system.

I also believe that if you make a commitment to another person you should honor that commitment. Cheating is not a good thing and will always destroy a relationship.

Claudia said...

what.a.maroon.

abbagirl74 said...

hmmm.... this post doesn't surprise me. I mean, it's men we are talking about. Of course he is going to back peddle. At least be man enough to own up to it! I could respect a guy a little if he did that.

Ryane said...

One word for that guy: Blackholeofemotionalneed. And anyway, who made him the mouthpiece for all men, everywhere? I know of more than a few guys who have loads integrity than that...even if it is 'so easy' to cheat & the chances of getting caught are nearly nil. Moving on! You don't need that kind of crap in your life. =-)

SMILF said...

Um WTF?! I guess at least he let you know right off the bat that he was going to turn out to be a cheating asshole so you didn't spend anymore time on him. :)

Nonya Bidness said...

All I can say is WTF?!?!

Tonya said...

so is he married right now and cheating with you?! Makes you wonder...

brookem said...

way to try and turn you on!
NEXT!!

Freckle Face Girl said...

I guess the good news is that he is honest, but still should be kicked to the curb.

lisaq said...

Haha...not too bright is he? Sheesh.