Monday, October 4, 2010

You Love a Girly Man!

Both men and women have their own specific tastes and types when it comes to picking a mate. Some of us like the taller of the group, some of us like the shorter ones, some like our mates lighter while some like them darker. Some like the clean cut look while others prefer the edgy rocker types. Our differences are what makes society work so beautifully.

I personally like a pretty boy. Someone who is very handsome to the point of being pretty. I like that a lot. I also enjoy a metrosexual guy. For those that may not know what a metrosexual guy is he is someone that takes great care and pride in his appearance. His grooming is impeccable and his clothing is always on point. He is very particular about his cologne. He's the guy you might even see at the nail salon getting his manicure and pedicure. He wears jewelry and has several pairs of shoes to match different outfits he may own. I love a man that takes good care of himself.

For some women this might be a bit much. They might prefer the rough and tumble, ultra masculine guy. I often find myself drooling over these kinds of guys as well but they all have to have a really handsome face.

I've known for a very long time what kind of guy I was attracted too. When I was 10 years old I had a serious crush on this really cute pretty boy in my class. Then a year later I had my first "boyfriend" who was the neighborhood bad boy and just happened to also be a pretty boy as well. Oh yeah, I knew early on what I liked.

Do you have a specific type? Is a metrosexual guy a little over the top for you? Guys do you prefer legs over boobs?

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Moooooog35 said...

It's like I can feel you looking at me as you're typing this.

Lexi and Jordan said...

I am not into the pretty boy type. I have dated a few guys like that and felt that women were always giving me dirty looks like they wanted him. I tend to go for the tall guys' guy - one that likes sports, outdoor activities, etc.

Karen said...

I don't like a man who is pretty or who takes better care of himself than me. I don't want my man to know labels or use skin care products.

I like a rugged, kind of overweight, blue collar kind of guy.

Senorita said...

I like 'em manly, ruff and tumble. I don't really like metrosexuals.

But then again, when I was in Paris I saw how fashionable French men are and I was totally turned on. Ah, who the hell knows what I want anymore......

JStar said...

I dated a metrosexual that was not attractive in the face but had a great personality. The fact that a whole year went by and I never seen him in tennis shoes or sweat pants was a problem...dag we are just going to walmart lol..And one time we stayed in a hotel and he left his earring and I had to go back and get it for him LOL...He was excessive...I would say that he was flamboyant like Puffy...To the point where he was questionable...I truly am convinced that he really was gay but in denial lol...So he messed with many many women trying to prove otherwise to himself and his friends. He cheated on me more than once and I couldnt take it...

I love a simple guy who is clean but isnt flashy at all. Someone that used to be bad boy but has gotten over that phase and is doing things to improve his life. But that street only shows in his swagger not his attitude. That is hard to find because usually that street never leaves....But as long as they can check it. I like a guy with rough hands and who doesnt mind getting his hands dirty. A handyman in all sense of the word :)

Don said...

Since I have grown older I tend to be attracted to a woman's mentally first and foremost. How she carries herself. Then, of course, her physical features cement the attraction.

Given that, I am more of a breast man than I am a leg man. But legs are still good though. Ha.

Also, I had no idea that you were on Twitter until a couple minutes ago.

DivaSoulSista said...

I like a good looking man but not necessarily a 'pretty one'. Dad always told me to never date a man who thought he was prettier than me! LOL! I like kind of tall, medium build or stocky. The only thing a thin man can do for me is eat a sandwich.

I like 'guys'. I used to work with a lot of women who liked the sensitive artsy type. I like guys who watch sports and drink beer and can put an outfit together if they have to but prefer jeans or khakis.

The True Urban Queen said...

I can not date pretty boys. I can't date men with a certain look who remind me of my brother. This is a little much to explain her.

I like dark men but have dated lighter men. I do like a man who dresses really nice, grooms himself, works out, works and speaks right.

For me, when it comes to looks, I tend to find men handsome who others don't find as attractive.

Unruly Brown said...

I like both looks. I'm physically attracted to both pretty boys and ultra masculine jock types. As long as they're well groomed, it's all good!

imbeingheldhostage said...

I've always liked a pretty boy (and Moooooog35 almost made me spit my drink again!).