Monday, March 8, 2010

I'm Back, But Not As Usual

Hey my lovelies in the blogosphere, I know I have been gone for quite awhile but I'm back, sort of.

This has been a horrible week and a half.

My mother, who had been sick for so very long, died Thursday before last. We had her funeral a couple of days ago and I am still reeling from all this.

Burying my mom has been the hardest thing I have ever had to do. This hurt and overwhelming sadness is often times too much to bare but I will get through this.

So now you all now why I have been gone for so long. I'm back now. It may take me a little while to get back to my jovial self but please bear with me guys.

So tell me, what has been going on in your world?


29 People saying stuff:

B said...

*hugs* I'm sorry to hear about the passing of your mother. If you need anything let me know!

Anonymous said...

I am so sorry to hear about the passing of your mother. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.

Karen said...

I am so sorry. I will keep your family in my prayers.

Senorita said...

I'm so sorry for your loss. Take all the time you need, we're not going anywhere ::hugs::

The Dish said...

So sorry for your loss, Tee. I will be thinking of you!

shorty said...

Sorry for your loss. Thinking of you. Hugs!

Jazzy Cazy said...

I'm sorry for your loss Tee. Take the time you need to grieve.

xjcx

mrs.getitbytch said...

I have been reading your blog for quite some time now, and never commented. I just wanted to offer you my condolences. I am so sorry to hear about your mom.

Just telling it like it is said...

I am so sorry...My heart goes out to you! Thanks for your support by the way...It means a lot!

sincerelykate.wordpress.com said...

so sorry tee. my deepest condolences. xoxo.

Queen-Size funny bone said...

let your memmories bring you comfort.

Suze said...

Oh Tee, I'm so sorry for your loss. Hugs to you my friend.

lisaq said...

So sorry girl! Thinking of you!

laughing808 said...

my condolences to you and your family.

Mizrepresent said...

Diva, wishing you the best. I know this cannot be easy for you and in fact the most hardest thing you can possibly go thru. So i just wanted to let you know you are in my prayers, my heart and i only wish you the best. Be strong and hold your mother's memory close to your heart. Don't worry about coming back to us until you are ready. Really luv, take care of you.

JStar said...

I am sooo sorry to hear...My last few postings may help in this time...I wrote this awhile back for someone in sorrow...I now dedicate this to you...

I know you are in a lot of pain right now

I want you to know that I am here for you always

I can be your shoulder if you should allow

I am willing to help you through these rough days

Words are not always needed to make your heart heal

Just know whatever you need, I am here

My heart is breaking wanting to take away the pain you feel

Although I know your pain will never truly disappear

This hurt will get easier with time

God’s will we may not always understand

Or have His reasoning’s defined

Just remember I am always here extending my hand

JStar said...

Oh its titled "I am here" :)

Melissa said...

I'm so sorry to hear this news. Take all the time you need, I can't imagine going through this. ((((hugs))))

Jeni said...

Oh my! I know, all too well from first-hand experience how difficult a time this was, is and will continue to be for you. Just remember one thing -there is no timetable, carved in stone, that says exactly how long we must/should grieve when a loss has come into our lives. Some can just seem to walk away and start over immediately while for others, it never seems to come about and the majority scramble around in the middle ground. I lost my Mom 30 years ago this past October and while I rationalized at the time it was for the best as cancer had ravaged her totally, there is still that empty place, that spot in one's life that can never be filled.
My thoughts and prayers go out for you, for your family, as you deal with this loss.

Moooooog35 said...

Sorry to hear that, Tee.

Nothing much has been happening here except the usual ruptured vetebrae and spinal surgery and - OH! - we had pasta last night.

Best wishes to you.

Tonya said...

Tee I can't even image what you have been through. Hugs to you and praying for you through this tough time.

Red Shoes said...

Oh man... I am SO SO sorry... All I have to say is that I've been there with both of my parents... I do understand your hurt... and your loss... again, I am so sorry... take your time in healing... the hurt doesn't go away easily...

jim

LiLu said...

Oh, love. I am so, so sorry. The interwebs, we are here for you. ((hugs))

Freckle Face Girl said...

Big hugs!

Noelle said...

I'm so sorry to hear about your Mom. I'm thinking of you.

Claudia said...

Aw.. I am sorry for your loss. take care, you have people caring for you!

MysTery said...

Aww hun!! Sorry to hear that but glad she is no longer suffering! You are in my prayers!!

You know what is going on in my world!! lol

Lys said...

OMG TEE! I'm SO SO SO Sorry! I've been MIA from the blogosphere as well but damn, this is just such sad news. Your mom seemed to be such an amazing woman. I will definitely keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.

Terri said...

Diva, I'm sorry I missed this and so sorry to hear of your loss. Time does heal and I'm glad to see you recognize this. Warm thoughts, prayers and hugs.