I was reading a post from a male blogger the other day that had me pondering some things. He was bemoaning the lack of available “good women” and how they did not appreciate him for the “good man” that he was.
A few questions popped into my head at that moment. For one, where are you meeting these women and what type of women are you getting involved with? Secondly, how are you treating these women? Are you sure you are doing what you are supposed to do?
He went on to extol all of his virtues such as: Having his own house, his own car, a job, never have been in jail and taking care of his child. Of course these are good things and you deserve appreciation for it.
Excuse me if I am wrong but those are things that a grown man is supposed to have and do anyway. You don’t get “I’m a good man” extra credit points by just doing what you are supposed to do. This is what being a productive member of society is all about.
I have all those qualities (minus the kid part) and no one is breaking down my door giving me all kinds of accolades nor do I expect that. Most of the people I know have the same qualities this man has listed.
Hey, I have an idea…..how about going the extra mile. Maybe volunteering in the community, taking your woman on a surprise weekend getaway. Being a big brother to a deserving child. Maybe then I can say you are the good man you think you are.
I’m just saying.
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