Tuesday, April 13, 2010

You Are Not The One

You wanted to see me. I admit, I wanted to see you too. To see if we had the connection we both thought we might have. We've never spent any real time together so I thought you coming over would be a great idea.

You came over. It was pleasant at first, albeit a bit awkward as we are trying to feel each other out and get reacquainted. We sit on my sofa and make idle chit chat. I try not to let uncomfortable silence enter our space. I make mention of something funny on TV to spark some interesting conversation from you.

After a few minutes our lips find each other. Its actually very pleasant I am enjoying tasting your lips and tongue.

Something begins to stir but I'm not sure what it is. We feverishly make out for awhile then I come to my senses and end things.

Me: "I think we need to stop now before we get to a point of no return."

Him: "I thought we were already there."

Silly man, we woman can always pull away if we seriously want to. I come to realize I like you but not enough. You eventually leave.

Weeks go by and we don't see each other. You call me, I call you but no face time. That all makes me even more weary of this situation. I come to realize you are not the one.

You never once suggest we go out anywhere. You never even invite me to your house. A girl wants to be wooed every now and then. Made to feel special. Out of the blue you call me and want to come over. Against my better judgement I agree.

We sit there, we chit chat. It's all very superficial and pleasant. Just pleasant. You attempt to kiss me but I always stop it at no more then a peck. You attempt to touch me. I thwart all of your advances. You go home. You are not the one.

Several weeks go by and we do not speak. I'm good with that. I feel nothing for you and think its best we cease all communication. Then all of a sudden....RING! My phone rings and I look down at the display and your name appears. I press the Ignore button. Why are you calling me? We have nothing to say to each other.

All you want to do is come to my house and try to have your way with me. What have you done to deserve it? It sure isn't your witty repartee. It's not all the cool places we've gone together.

RING!! There you go again. You are not the one.


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14 People saying stuff:

That one girl said...

Yeah, don't pick up that phone! I'm so over needy girls that let guys walk all over them. Don't let them walk all over you, it's soooo not 2010!

Freckle Face Girl said...

Yes, you certainly have better things to do with your time. :)

Red Shoes said...

"You are not the one.."

Powerful words for one that normally ends up being manipulated in relationships of any kind... that is the wake-up call...

Good for you!!!

Now, I need reinforcement in that area... *sighs*

~shoes~

Karen said...

I have to say there is something to be said for a booty call to get you through until The One comes along.

JStar said...

Been there done that...Good move!

The Dish said...

Good for you! All women deserve to be wooed.

Just telling it like it is said...

Your not even thinking of him as like a sexual object? No it could be fun to just use him for his body? No? Okay I understand...

Amber said...

I think this should be the standard script for every guy who is not the one. You are a rock star!

Senorita said...

Doesn't invite you over to his house ? Sounds like he may be married.

laughingattheslut said...

If I understand correctly which guy this is, I thought it wasn't going to work out anyway. I'm just surprised this is how you find out that it isn't going to work out.

And, yes, totally ignore him if he is not the one. What is his problem?

Moooooog35 said...

Will you just pick up the phone?!?

This is the greatest knock-knock joke EVER.

Vi said...

Urgh I've had men like that, only after one thing, you clearly show you reallydont want to but they still keep coming back!

imbeingheldhostage said...

I must be really daft because I was thinking, why don't you suggest he take you out, suggest where to go and what to do and if he still doesn't measure up, then say he's not the one?

If the whole problem is his lack of wooing you, maybe he's teachable. Still, it's best to trust your gut.

Tonya said...

so glad you didn't answer the phone if you know you know! either way.