Monday, November 1, 2010

You Should Have Just Kept Walking - Day 12

This blog marathon is actually fun. OK, so today I'm going to tell you all about a guy that obviously lost his mind.

A couple of weeks ago I was leaving a drug store and as I am getting into my car this guy in a Malibu pulls up next to me. I look over thinking to myself, 'Who the hell.....' He introduced himself and began talking. I obliged and reciprocated conversing with him. After a few minutes he gets out of his car and walks over to my driver side window to make talking a little easier.

As we continued to talk I remember thinking how full of himself he is. He loved talking about himself and how his life was in Pennsylvania and how well respected there he was and all this crap. I gave dude a mental eye roll with every sentence he spewed.

After we had spoken for what seemed like hours we exchanged phone numbers and I was on my way. Several days later I decide to call him and got his voicemail which I left a message on.

A couple days later he called back and we spoke for a good little while. The conversation was OK, no big deal then he told me on his own what I was going to ask him eventually. He told me he lived with a woman but he was not happy with her.

I had never heard that before. *side eye* I told him right then and there that that bit of news would definitely change our relationship. There would be none!

That whole situation really angered me a little. If you are not happy in your relationship, here's a concept, get out! You are a seemingly intelligent man with a job. What is stopping you from moving out and getting you own place and putting an end to what you would describe as a miserable relationship?

Don't approach me and bring potential drama to my life. I don't need that crap.

Tomorrow's post: My First Car

6 People saying stuff:

JStar said...

AMEN...I get this every day all day! Dont approach me for a potential mistress situation...I respect myself more than that...

Freckle Face Girl said...

Yes! Why do guys think that is ok? They need to clean up their lives before putting themselves out there.

Red Shoes said...

There's some interesting stuff I've found on this topic... I will have to find it and write a post about it...

Women do it too... ;o)

Just sayin'...

~shoes~

dmarks said...

Guy can fade into the crowd, too: there are a lot of malibu's around!

Anna said...

LOL that was good story Diva. We all don't need that crap. Anna :)

Diva Ma @ Mommy Fabulous said...

It's a guy thing. Always looking for something better. Having your cake and eating it too. Glad you dropped him!