Thursday, May 17, 2007

You are just Shallow

I met this guy last year. We will call him "Mike". Mike and I seened to hit it off albeit we only went out a couple times. There seemed to be chemistry between us and I thought that maybe we would actually date for awhile and get to know each other better. I was looking forward to it.

I know that there are certain men in our society that are re ally into feet. Some even go so far as to acknowledge they have a fetish. Fine. If that is your thing then fine. I happen to hate my feet because they are horrible and ugly. I don't want anyone looking or touching my feet.

Mike began pressuring me to show him my feet. I refused. I told him that I hated my feet and too leave them alone.

Apparently the feet thing is a real big issue for him because soon after my vehiment protests he started to cool off from me.

I know he really liked me because just the other day he sent me an IM out of the blue telling me he wanted me and all that. I told him he was full of shit because he didn't want me when he could of had me and he told me that my refusal to show him my feet were the reason behind his hasty retreat.

How shallow is that? Am I wrong in thinking this guy is crazy?

Mike...take you feet loving ass somewhere else.

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laughingattheslut said...

I don't like my feet either. But if that was a big deal to him I think I would have just shown him my feet and gotten it over with. Not quite the same as wanting to see my bare a** or my boobs or something.

Now, I don't think that I have great feet, and if he's just into looking at feet, he'd probably go somewhere else, and it would be just as well to know that sooner than later.

On the other hand, if he's wanting me to do something with my feet, depending on what it is, he's probably going to have to wait a while.

Vixen said...

My boyfriend says my feet are so pretty and cute, but he doesn't have a feet fetish...

Mike is a looser...I just don't get the fetish thing? I mean I have my favorite parts of a man's body, but feet...really?

SSC said...

I think that people need to respect your boundaries. What might have not been a big deal to him was an issue for you. He should have abided by your concerns. However on the other hand, I love feet!!! When Big was in town I had the children, Big and I pose for a picture of our feet. My feet look like Fred Flinstone, but who cares!!!! I say you did the right thing, if he was that aggressive and was upset that you didn’t show him your feet and left. What other things will he just pick up and decide to leave? Tell him you will show him your feet when he can show you he is a man!!!

laughingattheslut said...

The show you're a man comment might get him to show you something that you're not in the mood to see.

Sizzle said...

seems like a red flag. i mean, if a guy can't respect your "no" then that's just the beginning.

next!

Rachel said...

A guy that I work with has a HUGE foot fetish. No one wants to walk past him with open toed shoes on because he looks at them like other men look at a Hooter Girls chest.
It's creepy.
Feet don't bother me but I prefer that someone gets turned on by a more normal area than my feet.
Unless it involves them giving me lots and lots of pedicures. Then we might just have to make a deal.

Princess Extraordinaire said...

I would'nt like to be with someone who had that serious of a foot fetish but then again if he can live with your feet as they are go for it!

Freckle Face Girl said...

It is good to find out his weirdness early on. That way, you can run for the hills even if you liked to show off your feet.

Vi vi vi vooom!!!!!!!! said...

I also hate my feet, but LOVE getting them massaged! Catch bloody 22!

Erica AP said...

Haha... He is totally creepy and I'm sure he wants to do more than just look at your feet. Good choice to let him go. :)

Joy, Mean, Slick said...

It was obviously some type of fetish for him, but it's up to you if u wanna be part of that.

CarmenSinCity said...

What a weirdo!!!!! I also hungout with a guy that was into feet. I mean, we had just left the nightclub, it was like 3 in the morning, we were sweaty from dancing and he couldn't wait to get my shoes off my feet so that he could lick them. I mean - he didn't even let me wash them. WEIRD! I got rid of him right away. I'm not a fetish girl and even if I have the cutest feet in the universe, I don't want someone I barely know sucking on them - STRANGE!!!!

Joe said...

Very funny. We had a similar conversation in the office yesterday because one of my co-workers got stuck sitting next to a guy on the bus who wanted to talk about her feet for the entire ride.

Yuck.

gwen said...

The eldest beautiful daughter has a complete phobia about feet, she never goes barefoot and if she can see your naked feet she makes you put on socks or slippers !

Don't do anything you don't want to do, there's not one of them worth it

Beth said...

I am not a big fan of feet-mine or anyone else's. A foot fetish seems crazy to me, but there are a lot of people out there that enjoy that kind of thing. To each his own, you know? If this guy is into something that you are not into, it's better to pass on him and find someone that is more suited for you.

dmarks said...

Never understood this one either.

laughingattheslut said...

I wasn't really paying attention, but there was one of those real-life murder mystery shows on this weekend, and the murderer (or murder suspect?) had this thing about feet.