Tuesday, July 31, 2007

I Need Strength to Not Cuss Your Ass Out!

Ok, so my Vegas trip is next weekend with a couple of my friends. It’s gonna be an awesome 4 days and you better not ask me what happened!!! You know what they say about Vegas! HAHHAHA!

Anyway, I found out that a woman I used to be pretty close with will be joining us on this trip. She and I used to hang out all of the time going shopping, dinner, movies, parties, all kinds of places. I hadn’t spoken to this bitch in like 3 years.

She moved from Maryland to Detroit for a job almost six years ago. Great. Well she decided to give herself a going away dinner when she left. I opted not to attend this soiree because I was a little upset with her.

You see I live in Baltimore City and she lived in Upper Marlboro MD. For those of you who are not familiar with Maryland geography, Upper Marlboro is a suburb of DC so we were like an hour away from each other. No problem. When we hung out it was always down in the DC area. I could never get her to come up to Baltimore to hang out at all. I was always going down there to see her but she never reciprocated. I had lived in my apartment for 4 years at that point and she never once stepped foot into my apartment. She could not tell you what kind of furniture I had, were my kitchen was, whether or not I had a balcony…..NOTHING.

I started thinking about things and brought this to her attention and this bitch had the nerve to tell me, “Well I come up there to see my family and it gets tough to go back and forth like that.” Are you freaking kidding me?

So I said to myself ‘Fuck you’, I’m not going to extend myself one more time for this chick when she has never done so for me in our entire friendship and opted out of her little dinner.

Well she feels the world revolves around her and copped a major attitude with me because I didn’t show up and hasn’t spoken to me since. Whatever. I could really care less to be honest with you.

Now this bitch wants to show up to our weekend. I just hope God gives me the strength to resist cussing her ass out for being a selfish, egotistical bitch.

20 People saying stuff:

Shai said...

Dang! So she never stopped by when she up there visiting her peeps. SMH. Where she live at in Detroit, I will give her a head up. Sike. LOL.

MsRebecca said...

Wow.. you rock..
this reminds me of well.. me.. and some situations I've been in, try your hardest not to let the broad ruin your good time.. I can't believe she'll be there.. can you push her off a Vegas cliff? lol..

Bklyn Diva said...

awh shyt.. Diva.. we ain't got no bail money to come get you out in Vegas here.. just beat her ass INSIDE da hotel room and not in the casino aight????


now on another note.. don't let that chick ruin ya weekend.. enjoy your time and when u get to the roulette table.. bet on black and on 2nd 12

:)

Ms. Behaving said...

LMAO @ bklyn diva...

Girl don't even give her the satisfaction of ruining your good time.

HOPE YOU ENJOY VEGAS!!!

JustMeWriting said...

LOL... dag, you are on fire this week, but AGAIN, I'm right with you. I'm doing a post on Friends next week for this very reason. It's a shame things have to get to the point where you cut a person off, but you can't overextend yourself either. Now, I just pray God DOES smooth things out and you're able to enjoy yourself.

dc_speaks said...

ok, girl you need a big brotherly hug.

you are letting wayyyy too much negative emotions in your head. Take that same energy and use to plan for the upcoming weekend and the thanks for blessings coming your way.

peace out homie...

p.s. you will never ever see the pic you requested. LOL

CarmenSinCity said...

Wow - that's kind of fucked up that she wouldn't make the drive for you. I used to live in Severna Park and then Crofton, both of those places are in between Baltimore and D.C. as you probably know - but I ALWAYS went to Baltimore. I HATE D.C. Hate it hate it hate it. I always got lost there and I dunno, I just didn't like it.

Anyway, I would have stopped hanging out with her too and It'll be interesting to see if she grew up at all.

Maybe I'll run into you when you are in Vegas. Where are you staying?

Divalicious said...

Have fun on your weekend and don't let her ruin it for you! She is not worth your time. =)

DurtyMo said...

*dyin laffin* @ you constantly saying 'this bitch'. Hilarious to me! *shew* Ok I use to live in md now i live in northern va and trust me when i say that hike to and from bmore to and from dc aint cute no way u look at it and for u to do it for 4 years and she not do it once??? nah I can't see that. U good for holdin on that long..that BITCH *lol* wouldda been on the curb! Yea Lawd, build a fence around dis 1 and give her strength! LOL!

Erica AP said...

That sucks!! Selfish friends are the worst. Selfish anyone is the pits.

Organized Noise said...

What is it about people in Upper Marlboro not wanting to drive to Baltimore. I was in that same situation when I lived in Baltimore.

@ bklyn diva . . . to bail her out of jail in VEGAS, I'll find the money. Any excuse to go to Vegas is a good one to me.

Honey-Libra said...

Oh lord...what goes on in vegas stays in vegas please dont kill a chic LOL

laughingattheslut said...

But how did this woman end up getting to go on your trip?

I mean, Vegas is a big place, and you can't stop a person from going there, even if they want to go the same week as you and you don't want them around. But as far as actually going as one of the group, seems like that shouldn't happen.

Are your two friends just in love with the woman? Or did someone else cancel and you had to find a replacement in a hurry or get stuck with the bill? What???

Young, Horny, and a Teacher said...

she is so wrong for not coming to visit you at all. she better not show up to Vegas.

Blu Jewel said...

i can't say i blame you. i know i would have done the same thing.

friendship is supposed to be a two-way street.

Jenny! said...

I can cuss her out for you!

tAnYeTTa said...

How did she find out about the trip. That's who you need to cuss out. LOL

p.s. i hope you'll have a fabulous time bump her!

DraMa said...

It's Vegas baby! Cuss her out anyway and then find a really fat stripper man and pay him to sit on her for a lap dance. That'll teach her!

KIKI said...

Hehehehe...oh go on...CUSS DAT ASS OUT! It can be so much fun!(are my horns showing? lol)

CapCity said...

I'm with Drama on this one! I don't usually condone it but get funky blind & let 'er RIP (u can always blame the "free likker")! u'll feel so much better for it! LOL! At least once it's done she'll have a REAL reason not to speak to u & U won't care! Just don't get too carried away & catch a case! But a good cussing never really hurts! LOL!

have a blast in Vegas! wish i could be there wicha!