Thursday, January 3, 2008

You Selfish Bastard

I've recently become aware of just how selfish The Analyst is but nothing hit it more on the head then this morning.

This ass actually was surprised when I told him that I would be happier when he leaves. He had the audacity to ask me why. Excuse me.

I flat out told him that it is difficult to see him every day. I told him he doesn't have any emotional attachment but I do and my life will be much easier when he's gone.

How selfish can you be to not know how difficult this is for me and just leave to make it easier?

He's gonna keep playing around and come home from work one day to find his stuff all on the lawn with the front door locks changed.

Bastard!

On to happier things....I am excited about the possibility of making my job a telecommuting position. This is one of my goals for 2008 to be able to work from home. This is somethinig that I have been wanting to do for a very long time. This also ties into my plans to leave Maryland in the future. If I already have a work at home job then I can EASILY move and live where ever the hell I want and that is exciting!!!

Whooo Hooo! 2008 will be a banner year and I can't wait.

23 People saying stuff:

laughingattheslut said...

Basically, after what he did, we ended up not getting a divorce because we couldn't afford one. But he has the nerve to tell me that I wanted him to stay.

If he doesn't have a mental problem, he's doing a damn fine job of pretending.

Noe said...

Changing the locks sounds like a good idea. May be he then will get you want him OUT.
:)

dmarks said...

I'm seconding Noe here....

Sarah R said...

Wow. That is so crazy! Sorry you're going through that right now.

I've always wanted to work from home too, but I'd be scared that I'd lack the motivation to actually WORK and not watch reruns all day.

Vi vi vi vooom!!!!!!!! said...

ooo, just make sure he's out of the house before you start working from home. Just imagine how hellish THAT would be?

B_More BAP Life said...

Yep....Change the locks.

Karen said...

It never ceases to amaze me just how clueless men can be.

Good luck with the telecommuting. I did for a while and I found it REALLY difficult. I was miserable without the human face to face contact. And I think I drove my boyfriend totally insane every night when he got home from work, becasue I was just dying for someone to talk to. I guess it is not a thing everyone can do. Though working in yoga pants was a plus. :)

not said...

Maybe make an appointment with that lock-smith.

but I'm lazy and would tell him he needs to pack his own shit by X date. then I wouldn't need to do it unless he blew me off. If he has notice then maybe you don't have to do the heavy lifting (because I'll tell you what, it feels good the first few arms full, but after a few more it will just piss you off that you're cleaning up after him. Again.)

Suze said...

You should set a date and tell him he has to move by then.

Stepping Over the Junk said...

Box up his stuff and put it near the door, change the locks and when he tries to get in, you show him his stuff and say "you'ds better find a place to put all this, FAST or else it is getting donated to charity! They will be here to pick it up Friday if you dont get it out of here before then!"

Telecommuting is awesome. I work from home (not telecommuting,b ut my own business) and my guy telecommutes and loves it. He can make his lunch, watch the news on mute while he is working, etc. I hope that happens for you!

CapCity said...

Congrats on the TeleCommuting, Diva! Seems like you're starting the year off Great! Happy New year to ya!

CarmenSinCity said...

Working from home would be an AWESOME idea! I would love to do that - at least sometimes. I might get lazy and bored if I worked from home all the time though.

Happy New Year!

dmarks said...

Yes. Dupree needs a deadline, if you are serious that he needs to get out.

MysTery said...

Congrats!!

WrkNProgress said...

Yayyyy this is our year lady! Here's too 2008!

Mizrepresent said...

Glad you will have your DREAM job soon lady...and more sooner than later will your rid yourself of that which is not benefiting you at all...ie u know who! Blessings to you always, and one more thing HUGZ!

Monique said...

I threw my ex's stuff out on the front yard. It was quite exciting and fun. Of course I took him back afterwards but if I highly recommended trashing his stuff and changing the locks!

SSC said...

I love you Diva you are my hero. You really are. I don't mean to bait you on....but throw his shit out and change the locks and run the sprinklers . Okay not the sprinklers, just his crap.

Oh about the job I am so happy for you. I will keep my fingers crossed as you deserve this and I hope it works!!!

Whoo Hoo 2008, You go Diva!!!!

Princess Extraordinaire said...

Here's to 2008 being a banner year and to The (ignorant) Analyst getting OUT of your life and your house...

H Dot Bunnie said...

kick em to the curb!

The Ambiguous Blob said...

he probably knows EXACTLY why it's going to be easier for you when he's gone, but wanted to hear you say it. sadistic prick.

Lys said...

I agree with the other comments. He needs a drop dead date to move out by. He's not Steve from S&TC making dates while he's sleeping on your couch. It's your home and your peace and happiness are at stake. Out the door I vote.

As for the telecommuting, just keep thinking positive and it will happen - this, the move to ATL, everything.

Sojourner G said...

so since it's your place and your choice, and since your life would be better without him there, remind me why he is (there)?